Flashback Friday: “Jump” by Kris Kross

totally krossed out kris krossThe Mac Daddy and the Daddy Mac.

Chris Kelly and Chris Smith were the ultimate trendsetters for the tween crowd in the early 90′s. Discovered in an Atlanta mall in 1990, the signed a recording deal with Ruffhouse Records and released their album “Totally Krossed Out” in 1992. “Jump” was their first, and biggest, hit song. The Mac Daddy and the Daddy Mac’s signature fashion statement was wearing their clothes backwards. How could you not want to try it yourself?

“Jump” was the fastest selling single in America since The Police’s “Every Breath You Take” in 1983. “Jump” jumped to #1 and stayed on top of the Billboard Hot 100 for 8 weeks. Kris Kross’ immediate popularity earned them a spot as opening act for Michael Jackson’s “Dangerous” tour.

How high? Real high
Cause I’m just so fly
A young loveable, hugable type of guy
And everything is to the back with a little slack
Cause inside out, it’s wiggida wiggida wiggida wack”

I was hooked on the song as soon as I heard it on Z100 in Portland. I listened intently to the radio so I could record the song onto a cassette tap and replay it like crazy. I loved the beat, I memorized the lyrics, and I loved that these boys were SO cool…and they were my same age! I wanted to be cool too…so I tried to wear my clothes backwards. I put on my stonewashed jeans and Portland Trailblazers button-down jersey on backwards…and it looked terrible. A girl with sprouting curves should NOT try to wear clothing backwards. As much as I wanted to follow a trend, I just couldn’t get the nerve to leave the house like that. But wow…I thought the boys at my school with backwards clothes were so stylin.

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kris kross jump jumpIt’s a little bit strange to me…because I’ve been planning to publish this blog post all week. “Jump” has been on my list of songs to write about for Flashback Friday for a while. So when I heard the news on Friday that Chris Kelly had died, it felt like such an odd coincidence. “Jump” was a song that really takes me back to a fun time in my life, and I can’t say how many times I’ve listened to the song and jumped along.

So here’s to you, Chris Kelly. Thanks for the fun you gave my early teens with a thumping beat and fun rap to spout out with the song came on.

Ain’t nuthin’ sucker about Kris Kross we all that
So when they ask, “Do they rock?” say “Believe that!”

Flashback Friday: “Black” by Pearl Jam

Pearl Jam-TenIn 1991, the realities of being an emotional adolescent were on the upswing. It was the beginning of the grunge era, and my musical tastes switched from New Kids on the Block and poppy Top 40 hits…to songs with deeper meaning, more angst, and lyrics that spoke to my soul. One of the albums that defined my 7th grade year was “Ten” by Pearl Jam. Although “Jeremy” and “Evenflow” got more radio airplay, “Black” was the Pearl Jam song that I couldn’t stop listening to.

Although I had little to be dark and angsty at that age, beyond an unrequited crush on a boy who played guitar in my grade, I felt like the darkness of “Black” was real. I could feel the pain. I would sing and wail along with the lyrics.

Ooh, and all I taught her was everything
Ooh, I know she gave me all that she wore
And now my bitter hands chafe beneath the clouds
Of what was everything.
Oh, the pictures have all been washed in black, tattooed everything…


The MTV Unplugged version is also awesome.

pearl jam black cd bookletEddie Vedder’s voice was haunting, and I was always trying to figure out the meaning of the song as I listened to my CD on repeat. The lyrics insert in the CD didn’t have all of the words on it, just a scratched out section of the most important words in black and white.

Since this was before the Internet was in every home, a search query to find the lyrics wasn’t available. You had to listen over and over to figure out what was being said. And with me, I scribbled it out on notebook paper and would compare it with my friends’ interpretations.

When Eddie Vedder was asked the meaning behind the song, he said:

The song is about letting go. It’s very rare for a relationship to withstand the Earth’s gravitational pull and where it’s going to take people, and how they’re going to grow. I’ve heard it said that you can’t really have a true love unless it was a love unrequited. It’s a harsh one, because then your truest one is the one you can’t have forever.”

No matter how much you want to be with somebody, sometimes it will never be. “Black” by Pearl Jam taught me this. Which is why I listened to this song during every boyfriend breakup period of my adolescence.

I know someday you’ll have a beautiful life,
I know you’ll be a sun in somebody else’s sky, but why
Why, why can’t it be, can’t it be mine?

 

Wordless Wednesday: Live Bands Tonight

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Flashback Friday: “One” by U2

U2-Achtung-BabyAs with last week’s Flashback Friday selection “Enjoy the Silence,” the song “One” by U2 also defined my early adolescence.

The first U2 song I remember listening to was “I Still Haven’t Found What I’m Looking For” (while actually knowing it was U2). I was having my 10th birthday party slumber party, and we had VH1 playing in the background (because MTV was forbidden – it was too “vulgar”). While my friends chatted about cute boys in our 4th grade class, I remember watching the video, mesmerized by Bono’s voice and alluring eyes. In the video, the band walks around Fremont Street in Las Vegas, and show a bit of a softer side to the rock band. Because it was in the days before YouTube, I didn’t have a way to just look up the video and watch more songs. But I always kept my eye out for U2 videos like “With or Without You.”

1n 1991, U2 released their “Achtung Baby” album, and that was the first U2 album I purchased. U2 has been my favorite band since 1992. Although I have other bands dear to my heart, such as Keane and The Beatles, I don’t always want to listen to the others. The song that immediately drew me in was “One.” The lyrics were so deep and could be interpreted in so many different ways.

Is it getting better?
Or do you feel the same?
Will it make it easier on you now?
You got someone to blame

Did I disappoint you?
Or leave a bad taste in your mouth?
You act like you never had love
And you want me to go without
Well it’s too late tonight
To drag the past out into the light
We’re one, but we’re not the same
We get to carry each other

u2 achtung baby 1991So what is the meaning behind the song “One”? The song was formulated right as East Germany and West Germany were reuniting. They recorded sessions in Berlin in late 1990. Bono recalls that “the melody, the structure—the whole thing was done in 15 minutes,” and the lyrics “just fell out of the sky, a gift”. “One” was inspired by the band members’ fracturing relationships, the German reunification, and Bono’s skepticism of the hippie idea of “oneness”. It was released as a single to benefit AIDS research. It is often used to promote human rights and social justice causes, and Bono named his charitable organization, the ONE Campaign, after the song.

“One” has been played at every single one of U2′s concerts since 1992. And it’s always a crowd favorite. One of my most special experiences with the song was belting it out with the rest of the crowd at Rice Stadium in 1997, during the Pop Mart tour.

One life, with each other
Sisters, brothers
One life
But we’re not the same
We get to carry each other, carry each other
One

Have you ever sung along to “One” at a U2 concert?

Flashback Friday: “Enjoy The Silence” by Depeche Mode

depeche mode enjoy the silenceWhen I decided to start my Flashback Friday series in 2011, I decided to choose music that was popular right around the time that I was my daughter’s age. So that meant choosing songs that were popular from 1900 on. The song that sparked my idea was “Enjoy the Silence” by Depeche Mode. I was listening to it in the car with Rosie on my birthday in 2009, and the radio station said something to the effect of “Did you know that ‘Enjoy the Silence’ was recorded twenty years ago today?”

Holy cow. One of my very favorite songs was released on my 10th birthday. February 5th, 1990.

It’s a song that defined my adolescence. It’s the song that made sense to me, and brought me into the underworld of alternative music. Once I discovered Depeche Mode’s “Violator” album, my music preferences forever changed away from traditional Top 40.

Not only did I love the rhythmic beats and soaring passionate vocals of David Gahan, the lyrics spoke to me.

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Vows are spoken to be broken
Feelings are intense
Words are trivial
Pleasures remain
So does the pain
Words are meaningless and forgettable
All I ever wanted, all I ever needed is here in my arms
Words are very unnecessary
They can only do harm

depeche mode violator rose“Enjoy the Silence” was written and recorded in 1989, and the single was released on February 5th, 1990. It was the second single from their soon-to-be-released album “Violator.” It was Depeche Mode’s 24th single released in the United Kingdom, and many people consider it to be their signature song. The song one Best British Single at the 1991 BRIT awards.

It is one of Depeche Mode’s most popular and best known songs, and it has been recorded by other artists such as Tori Amos, Keane, Nada Surf, Breaking Benjamin…and even Susan Boyle. It peaked on the UK Singles Chart at number 6, which beat out their previous highest-charting single of “People are People” in 1984. The song reached number 8 on the US Billboard Hot 100, and became the only Depeche Mode single to achieve Top Ten status.

The song was written by Martin Gore, and was originally going to be a slow-paced ballad in C minor. Eventually, the band added upbeat back track with lots of drum and bass. In 2004, Depeche Mode released “Enjoy the Silence 04″ and it peaked at number 7 on the UK Singles Chart. Even over 20 years later, “Enjoy the Silence” is one of the most played songs on modern alternative radio stations.

I really do love this song. I had it as my cell phone ringtone for about 5 years, and still have it selected for certain contacts. I’ve remained a HUGE Depeche Mode fan through the years, and actually gave my husband a pair of tickets to a DM concert for our one year wedding anniversary. A lot of people my age think that Nirvana defined their generation, but I wasn’t as involved in the grunge scene as I was in the alternative/new wave scene.

Anyone else love “Enjoy the Silence”?

My Last Night With The CRV – The Breakup

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Breaking up is hard to do. Especially when you’re in love.

John Mayer has a song I love called “Spilt Screen Sadness“, which is about breaking up (even when you know you’re good together in so many ways).

“All you need is love is a lie, cause we had love, but we still said goodbye. Now we’re tired, battered fighters. And it stings when it’s nobody’s fault, cause there’s nothing to blame at the drop of your name. It’s only the air you took and the breath you left…”

Last night was my final night of my week with the 2013 Honda CRV EX-L that was lent to me by Ken Garff Honda of Orem. I needed to go up to Bountiful to borrow some snow pants for my daughter’s winter campout for school, so I figured it was a good time to take a nice long drive by myself.

Pearl Jam "Black"I’ve had many loves in my life. I’m one of those girls that falls hard and fast when she sees someone that’s a good match for her. That can be evidenced by the fact that I married my first husband less than four months after we met for the first time. It took a lot of restraint to wait a whole six months to marry Taylor.

But not all love is good for you, and last night I had to come to terms with the fact that it’s over for me and the CRV. Because the dealership wants it back. My week of the #HondaTestDrive is almost up.

True Story: Many of my breakups have happened while sitting in a dark car, listening to music, and trying to find the right words to say. And one of the songs playing during a breakup with a high school boyfriend was “Black” by Pearl Jam: “And now my bitter hands cradle broken glass of what was everything. All the pictures have all been washed in black, tattooed everything.”

Last night in the CRV, “Black” came up on shuffle. It reminded me of that breakup, and how I’ll be “breaking up” with the CRV tomorrow when Ken Garff gets it back. This line of the song was particularly poignant:

“I know someday you’ll have a beautiful life,
I know you’ll be a star in somebody else’s sky,
But why, why, why can’t it be, can’t it be mine?”

Last night became a sad night for me. I cranked up my angsty “melancholy” playlist and  sang at the top of my lungs. I also grabbed my last #PDR (a bottle of IBC Root Beer, mind you! I’m part of the Bloggers Against Drunk Driving campaign).

A full review of my week with the CRV will be published this week. Until my hands are pried from the smooth leather steering wheel, I’ll enjoy my last few moments with my love that was not meant to be.

Flashback Friday: “All I Want” by Toad The Wet Sprocket

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Toad The Wet Sprocket

The first time I heard the name “Toad the Wet Sprocket” and the beginning drum beats of “All I Want” played, I was immediately a fan. Can you instantaneously fall in love with a band off of their name and 5 seconds of a song? In the case of me in 1992, and Toad The Wet Sprocket, yes.

The name “Toad the Wet Sprocket” came from a Monty Python comedy sketch called “Rock Notes,” in which a new journalist delivers a nonsensical report: “Rex Stardust, lead electric triangle with Toad the Wet Sprocket, has had to have an elbow removed following their recent successful worldwide tour of Finland. Flamboyant ambidextrous Rex apparently fell off the back of a motorcycle.”

A band name off a Monty Python sketch? Heck yes!

Toad the Wet Sprocket formed in 1986, and consists of vocalist and guitarist Glen Phillips, guitarist Todd Nichols, bassist Dean Dinning, and drummer Randy Guss. As the band’s first gig approached, they had not yet chosen a name. The members jokingly adopted “Toad the Wet Sprocket” because it was “hilarious”. Glen Philips later said the band name was “a joke that went on too long…and it was probably meant to be temporary at the time”. Their first album “Fear” was released in 1991, and their two singles “All I Want” and “Walk on the Ocean” reached the top 20 on the Billboard Hot 100 chart. The song “Good Intentions” was produced for the TV show Friends, but not released as part of the track list on Fear.

“Nothing’s so loud as hearing when we lie
Truth is not kind, but you’ve said neither am I”

toad the wet sprocket greatest hitsThis song doesn’t exactly come across as a love song, but it’s part of the love story of Taylor and I. We met on an internet dating site in 2004. Our first date went well, but our second date was very awkward. He probably would have written me off (since most guys were scared of dating divorced moms), but on our second date he let me borrow his Toad the Wet Sprocket greatest hits CD.

Because our date didn’t go very well, and we were more interested in other people at the time, we didn’t communicate much for the next two months. I got a call from Taylor asking me on another date, and I was sure it was some kind of pity date so he could get his CD back. But he was brave – he agreed to go to my extended family’s Fourth of July BBQ (after not seeing me for almost 3 months). My family loved him, we felt some chemistry, and the rest was history. Would we have gotten together without Toad The Wet Sprocket? The world may never know.

Eric Idle, the sketch’s original performer, talked about the band’s name in a 1999 performance: “I once wrote a sketch about rock musicians and I was trying to think of a name that would be so silly nobody would ever use it, or dream it could ever be used. So I wrote the words “Toad the Wet Sprocket”. And a few years later, I was driving along the freeway in L.A., and a song came on the radio, and the DJ said, “that was by Toad the Wet Sprocket”, and I nearly drove off the freeway.”

Flashback Friday: “Bohemian Rhapsody” by Queen

queen bohemian rhapsodyIt’s always intrigued me how songs from the past can blaze forth into popularity again. One of the biggest comeback songs that I can remember in my youth was Queen’s “Bohemian Rhapsody.” Originally written by Freddie Mercury in 1975 for the album “A Night at the Opera,” this 5 minute and 55 second elaborate piece of music includes a ballad portion, a rifftastic guitar solo, an manic operatic interlude, and a headbang-inducing rock portion.

When “Bohemian Rhapsody” was released as a single, it was on the top of the UK singles chart, and reached number 9 in the United States. 15 years later, it reached number one again for five weeks following the death of Freddy Mercury, and it became the UK’s third best-selling single of all time.Queen’s most iconic song continued to rule the charts with the 1992 movie “Wayne’s World“.

Is this the real life?
Is this just fantasy?
Caught in a landslide
No escape from reality
Open your eyes, look up to the skies and see

queen bohemian rhapsody magnificoI love how dramatic and eclectic this song is. Music scholar Sheila Whiteley suggested that “the title draws strongly on contemporary rock ideology, the individualism of the bohemian artists’ world, with rhapsody affirming the romantic ideals of art rock.” Freddy Mercury intended the song to be a “mock opera,” to contrast the norm of rock songs in the mid-1970s. There are tender moments, manic passages, and a fair amount of seemingly-nonsensical words. But did you know:

  • Bismillah” is the opening word in the Qu’ran (Koran) and literally means “In the name of Allah.”
  • Scaramouch” according to the dictionary means “a stock character who appears as a boastful coward.”
  • Beelzebub” is one of the many names given to “The Devil.”

waynes world queen bohemian rhapsodyIt’s impossible for me to think of my 6th grade year without thinking of Wayne’s World and Bohemian Rhapsody. Saturday Night Live was all the rage at my school, much to the chagrin of my parents. I didn’t know what “headbanging” was until everyone went crazy with the hard rock interlude of the song, as evidenced by the car scene in Wayne’s World. It seemed like a timely transition into the headbanging and mosh-pitting of the grunge era. Mike Myers and Dana Carvey may not have been in the band Queen, but they will always be associated with the song. Party on, Wayne!

Every time bohemian rhapsody starts playingI often felt like a rebel listening to this song…because my parents always rolled their eyes when I played the song (which, mind you was recorded on a cassette tape off of the radio). It was just another song from their late teen years, and I treated like it was the greatest thing since sliced bread. I was entranced by Freddy Mercury’s voice, especially in the ballad portion. Some musicologists believe the lyrics describe a suicidal murderer haunted by demons, or depict events preceding an execution. Personally, after finding out that the lead singer of this epic rock song had died, the lyrics felt even more strange and surreal.

I distinctly remember singing the ballad portion to a crying child while babysitting. As soon as I started singing “Mama, ooooh. Didn’t mean to make you cry. If I’m not back again this time tomorrow, carry on, carry on…as if nothing really matters.” I don’t think I fully understood the morbidity of that portion of the song. I was never asked to babysit for this family again, but at least the song put the screaming child to sleep.

“Any way the wind blows….” (((GONG)))

What memories do you have of Bohemian Rhapsody? Did you also fall in love with it during the 90′s? Have you ever headbanged to it? Do you still say “Party on Wayne! Party on Garth!”?
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Flashback Friday: “Tears in Heaven” by Eric Clapton

eric clapton tears in heavenIn my opinion, Eric Clapton is one of the top five greatest guitarists in Rock ‘n Roll history. He’s been rocking since before I was born, but my first real exposure to his music was an acoustic ballad released in 1992 – “Tears in Heaven.”

“Tears in Heaven” was written about the pain and loss Eric Clapton felt after his four-year-old son Conor fell from the window of a 53rd floor apartment in New York City. His son’s death impacted Clapton greatly, and he took a 9-month hiatus from performing to grieve for his son. When he got back on stage, he was a softer and more reflective musician. “Tears in Heaven” was featured on the soundtrack for the movie “Rush,” a turbulent movie about drug addiction, but gained soaring popularity after Clapton performed it live for MTV’s Unplugged.

“Woud you know my name…if I saw you in heaven?”

Eric Clapton Tears in Heaven“Tears in Heaven” was the #6 most popular song of 1992 on the Billboard Hot 100 charts. It reached #2 on the Hot 100 Singles chart, and was #1 on the adult comtemporary charts for three weeks in 1992. The song won 3 Grammy Awards – Song of the Year, Record of the Year, and Male Pop Vocal Performance. In 2004, Rolling Stone listed “Tears In Heaven” on their 500 Greatest Songs of All Time” list.

I have very dear memories of “Tears in Heaven.” It brings back a lot of memories of my youth. It reminds me of a boy I was in a band with (he played guitar, I played bass). It reminds me of my dad – we finally had a song on a contemporary radio that we could agree on. It reminds me of funerals I’ve attended. I’ve spent a lot of time pondering the lyrics and learning to play the bridge on acoustic guitar. I just really love this song.

“Beyond the door, there’s peace I’m sure. And I know there’ll be no more tears in heaven.”

Do you have memories of “Tears in Heaven”?

Pop Culture Year in Review: Top Picks Of 2012

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At the end of (almost) every year, I do a recap of my favorite things in pop culture for the ending year. Because I’m a “culture chick”, my picks revolve around movies, music, and television, it’s a fun time to look over the stuff that most influenced my pop culture addiction for the last 365 days. Here are my 2012 picks.

Favorite Songs of 2012

  • “Disconnected” – Keane
  • “Take a Walk” – Passion Pit
  • “Madness” – Muse
  • “Somebody That I Used to Know” – Gotye
  • “It’s Time” – Imagine Dragons
  • “Too Close” – Alex Clare
  • “Ho Hey” – The Lumineers
  • “Everybody Talks” – Neon Trees
  • “Lights” – Ellie Goulding
  • “Silenced By The Night” – Keane
  • “Glad You Came” – The Wanted
  • “Stereo Hearts” – Gym Class Heroes/Adam Levine
  • “Tongue Tied” – Grouplove
  • “Not Over You” – Gavin DeGraw

breaking bad 2012 castFavorite Television Shows of 2012

  • Breaking Bad
  • Big Bang Theory
  • Mad Men
  • How I Met Your Mother
  • Community
  • The New Girl
  • Gossip Girl
  • Weeds

Favorite movies of 2012

  • Les Miserables
  • Moonrise Kingdom
  • The Hunger Games
  • Skyfall
  • Wreck-It Ralph
  • The Perks of Being a Wallflower
  • Brave
  • The Inbetweeners
  • Ted

dumb ways to dieFavorite YouTube videos of 2012

Wicked at Apollo Victoria LondonFavorite Live Performances Attended in 2012

  • Wicked at London’s Apollo Victoria Theater
  • Les Miserables at the Utah Shakespearean Festival
  • Keane in Salt Lake City
  • Stones in His Pockets at the Utah Shakespearean Festival
  • Mormon Tabernacle Choir Christmas Concert
  • Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat at Murray City Amphitheater
  • Miscellaneous bands playing at the Cavern Club in Liverpool, England
  • Fictionist at Provo Rooftop Concert Series
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