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Wordless Wednesday – Christmas Don’t Be Late

Christmas Don't Be Late

Wordless Wednesday: First Day of Fifth Grade

 

First day of 5th grade – 1990 and 2011 – Turquoise shirt and hot pink backpack

Like mother, like daughter?

 

Tulips, Pansies, and Rosie

Could anything be more delightful than spending a beautiful spring evening with my lovely daughter Rosie?

Can’t think of anything at the moment.

The Graduate: Aviation Professional Pilot

After years of effort, three schools, several majors, student loans, and the blasted algebra class that would never end….Taylor did it! He graduated from Utah Valley University’s Global Aviation Program. He achieved the much-desired Bachelor of Science degree, Aviation Professional Pilot.

It was a little strange to be on UVU’s campus, as Taylor’s program was entirely online (or in the air, if you will). It was a strange feeling. I’m grateful that Taylor was able to obtain this degree so flexibly…completing coursework in Utah, California, Florida, Tennessee, Michigan, and Georgia. Despite hundreds of drivebys of the UVU campus, we didn’t know where anything besides the McKay Events Center.  The day before graduation we drove around to look for the Alumni Center where caps and gowns were being distributed…and had to ask a few people where to go.


I’m so proud of Taylor’s accomplishments and drive to complete his degree. He is one of the lucky ones of his fellow aviation graduates to be lucky enough to be working the “dream job” (if you can call being a regional FO a dream). He’s had aviation in his blood, wanted to be a jet pilot since he was 3 years old, and he made it happen.

The Hottest Couple, This Side of the Wasatch Fault

I love getting my picture taken. I’m blessed with face photogenic enough to make up for everything else I don’t like about my voluptuous body. My husband, on the other hand, isn’t thrilled about getting  captured on camera. When he smiles for a picture, he poses his face into something I’ve affectionately called his “Taylorsmile” (as pictured above). I’ve been bugging him for ages to get portraits taken of the two of us. The last time he humored me was the week before he proposed to me in 2004. For my birthday this year, he finally agreed to it. I got my portraits.

It took a lot of coaxing. He didn’t want to get overly dressed up. He didn’t want to be matchy-matchy. He wouldn’t wear the argyle sweater I’ve been pleading for him to wear for 2 years. He wanted to go with his usual black shirt and jeans. And I had to bargain with him to put decent styling product in his hair.  But ultimately, I did get what I wanted:

A real smile from my Tayv8tor!

Home Invasion

Rosie and I spent a few days away from home this weekend. When we arrived home and walked into the house last night, most of our electronics were out of place. Components were detached from cables, games and movies were mixed up and thrown into places we never put them, and an XBOX 360 was sitting in the middle of the room. Our sliding glass door was slightly open, and a very strange note was on the floor:


We called up the Spanish Fork Police Department, and an officer came over to survey the situation. The suspect entered through our front window, pulled out the screen and forced the front window open…bending the track of the window and breaking the lock. Once they had the loot, the unlocked the sliding door, which gave them access to come back and take more, or just “borrow” our stuff for a while. The officer told me that we are not the only ones in the neighborhood who’ve had this happen recently, and the written plan is consistent with the other thefts that have happened nearby. The note details the masterplan of the heist, and it was obvious that the theft was pulled off by kids.  Looking closely at the XBOX 360, we realized it wasn’t our console. It was an older XBOX version that had the “red ring of death,” and the input for the power cord was bent.

After working with SFPD, and putting a few facts together, I was pretty sure who did it. Rosie remembered that a neighbor boy who occasionally came to our house liked to play games with her, because his XBOX was broken. I’d had previous uneasy feelings about this boy, and he only came over to play video games. I knew his home situation was rough, with several older and younger siblings. His mom works at McDonalds, and would give her kids free food coupons to pass out at school. He has scars on his face from a brother splashing hot cooking oil on him, and he often wanders around the neighborhood alone without a winter coat.

I decided to take the broken XBOX over to the suspected boy’s home and confront his mother. She doesn’t speak English very well, and I could tell that her kids were twisting my words when they translated for her. After an hour of several kids denying facts, explaining how it couldn’t possibly be their 8-year old brother to write out the note, the truth came out when we plugged in the 2 XBOX consoles. The beat up one we brought over immediately glowed the “red ring of death,” which requires the console to be mailed to Microsoft for repair. The console the kids brought up from the basement had all gamer tag information recently swiped off of it, but it was undoubtedly ours.  The mother realized that her kids had our XBOX, but wanted to talk to her kids privately and get back to me.

About 30 minutes later, two of the teenage siblings showed up at our door (with no coats on.) The mother wanted me to come back over and talk with her. A large pile of our missing items sat upon their kitchen counter, including HD cables, games, wireless controllers, and our Game Cube. She made her kids apologize to me, and say that they’d never do it again. Most of our items were recovered at their house last night, but we are still missing about $100 of games, controllers, and movies. The mom was mortified that her kids pulled off the heist, and that so many of them were involved.

Rosie is not taking the whole situation well. She thought this kid was her friend, and feels so betrayed. I am angry that the kids did not come clean immediately, and that they didn’t return all of our missing items. I feel bad for the mother, as she realized that her kids worked together to break into a house, steal things, and repeatedly lied to her that they didn’t do it. I know their family is struggling financially, and the mother looked to be at the end of her rope when she opened the door (before having any idea about the theft). We had a hard time communicating due to the language barrier, and her kids changed my words when they translated our conversation. I think that between the police department and our renters policy, we’ll be able to recover our missing items. I just hate the negative and violated emotions that a situation like this evokes.

Valentine to my Tayv8tor

In Your Eyes

Love I get so lost, sometimes
Days pass
And this emptiness
Fills my heart
When I want to run away
I drive off in my car
But whichever way I go
I come back to the place you are

All my instincts, they return
And the grand facade
So soon will burn
Without a noise
Without my pride
I reach out from the inside

In your eyes, the light the heat
In your eyes, I am complete
In your eyes, I see the doorway
To a thousand churches
In your eyes, The resolution
of all my fruitless searches
In your eyes
I see the light and the heat
In your eyes
Oh, I want to be that complete
I want to touch the light
The heat I see in your eyes

Love, I don’t like to see so much pain
So much wasted, and this moment keeps slipping away
I get so tired of working so hard for our survival
I look to the time with you to keep me awake and alive

And all my instincts, they return
And the grand facade
So soon will burn
Without a noise
Without my pride
I reach out from the inside

In your eyes
The light the heat
In your eyes
I am complete
In your eyes
I see the doorway
To a thousand churches
In your eyes
The resolution of all my fruitless searches
In your eyes
I see the light and the heat
In your eyes
Oh, I want to be that complete
I want to touch the light
The heat I see in your eyes
In your eyes

After 5+ years, I still feel the light and heat in your eyes. You were the resolution to “all my fruitless searches.” I love you more than I’ll ever be able to express. Wish you were here with me to celebrate “everyone’s favorite commercialized February holiday” with me.

Love,
Nicole

(For those who don’t know, Peter Gabriel’s “In Your Eyes” (Acoustic Version, mind you!) was our wedding song. As well as Level 42′s “Something About You.”)

Thirty Years of the Girl with Coal-Black Hair

In honor of my 30th Birthday today, I hope you’ll enjoy a picture from every year of my life.





















Tender Mercies and Monetary Miracles

Life is Strange. But I must follow that up by saying, “Life is Beautiful.” I know I’m not the first one in the history of the world to say those words, but the past 7 months have been as unpredictable as being blindfolded on a rollercoaster.


When I started an exciting job at a fairly prestigious university last January, I had no idea how short lived the position would be. After 6 months, I was out of work. I didn’t qualify for unemployment in neither Georgia, nor Utah. We’d been barely getting by as a dual income family, drowning in our student loan debt despite two paychecks. We have gone from money in our savings account and some open credit on our American Express, to paying cash only and living paycheck to paycheck like never before. In October, my husband bumped up to 3rd year First Officer pay, which now gives him slightly more income than a full-time fast food restaurant worker. Seriously.

In late June, Rosie and I drove cross-country from Georgia to Utah. We filled up our car with clothes and few other things to make Grandpa’s house in Spanish Fork feel like a home. We have been so fortunate to have a cozy place to live (despite all the complaining I do about its proximity to the SLC airport). Rosie’s surrounded by many children her age, and I’ve made some great friends in the neighborhood. I never knew I could adore a laptop and an unsecured WiFi connection so deeply. We haven’t had much, but it honestly hasn’t been so bad.

At times when I’ve felt my life was lean on blessings….

Something would happen to remind me of how incredibly blessed I am.

I discovered this quote through my bloggy friend Janessa by Elder Scott:

“Father in Heaven knew that you would face challenges and be required to make some decisions that would be beyond your own ability to decide correctly. In His plan of happiness, He included a provision for you to receive help with such challenges and decisions during your mortal life. That assistance will come to you through the Holy Ghost as spiritual guidance. It is a power, beyond your own capability, that a loving Heavenly Father wants you to use consistently for your peace and happiness.”

Amazing counsel, don’t you think?

December was particularly trying, yet amazing, for our family. As a challenge would come up, such as my back injury and being drastically overcharged by our moving company , someone would shovel the snow in our driveway, bring us dinner, slip an envelope with cash into our door jamb, or offer to fill up my gas tank. We had more medical expenses in one month than we’d encountered in the rest of 2009, but we have excellent insurance and manageable copays. On an emotionally overwhelming day, I confided in an acquaintance how exhausted and hopeless I was feeling about my situation. A few days later, a “Secret Santa” had been set up for our family…giving Rosie a bounteous pile of gifts under the tree, and cash we needed to pay our car payment. My eyes still tear up about it as I think about it.

I’ve tried to give personal thank you’s to all those who have helped out my family…but I know several anonymous TMI’s (Tender Mercy Instigators…I just made that up) have blessed our lives. To you, I say Thank You, Thank You, Thank You.

Tender Tennessee Christmas?

Since Taylor has been with his airline, he’s had relatively good luck with having holidays off. Sometimes he’ll miss an “eve” but make it for the “day,” or part of the accompanying weekend. For Thanksgiving, he had three days off. He flew in to ONT Wednesday morning at 4 am, and flew out of LAX Friday morning at 4 am. It is difficult to spend so much time commuting, especially because it typically involves pickups/dropoffs at early and strange hours. Since he’s been in MEM, he’s had much better luck jumpseating on FedEx than on Delta….and those flights are usually during the inconvenient hours.

Last week he got his December schedule, which made us happy and sad. Happy because he has 16 days off (for the first time since he was domiciled at DTW). Sad because he is scheduled on 4-day trips over both Christmas and New Years. He’ll be overnighting in Nashville Christmas Eve, and Knoxville New Years Eve. It doesn’t make sense for Rosie and I to fly out to be with him….he’s flying multiple legs December 24, 25, 31 and January 1. My first (sarcastic) thought was “Another tender Tennessee Christmas,” a song I love off of Amy Grant’s Christmas album. Amy makes it sound so idyllic…for Taylor it will mean nights alone in a Hampton Inn or Fairfield Inn.

Come on weatherman,give us a forecast snowy white.
Can’t you hear the prayers of every childlike heart tonight?
Rockies are calling, Denver snow falling,
Somebody said it’s four feet deep.
But it doesn’t matter, give me the laughter;
I’m gonna choose to keep

Another tender Tennessee Christmas,
The only Christmas for me.
Where the love circles around us like the gift around our tree.
Well I know there’s more snow up in Colorado
Than my roof will ever see,
But a tender Tennessee Christmas is the only Christmas for me.

Every now and then, I got a wanderin’ urge to see
Maybe California, maybe tinsel town’s for me.
There’s a parade there, we’d have it made there;
Bring home a tan for New Year’s Eve.
Sure sounds exciting, awfully inviting,
Still I think I’m gonna keep

Another tender Tennessee Christmas,
The only Christmas for me.
Where the love circles around us like the gift around our tree.
Well they say in L.A.it’s a warm holiday;
It’s the only place to be.
But a tender Tennessee Christmas is the only Christmas for me.
(Ohh, you know I wanna be home.)